Hugs

My grandmother Annabelle died over fifteen years ago, but she hugged me last night. Sleep evaded me and I snuggled beneath the covers, pulling the top layer under my chin. The nubby texture flooded my mind with memories stored within the stitches of the afghan my grandmother crocheted for me when I was in my teens.

I don’t know why she picked the colors she did. Well, one color’s yellow and my sister and I shared a yellow bedroom. I think I might have had something to do with that. But brown and orange? I haven’t a clue. Other than that bedroom, it’s never matched any decorating scheme of mine. Yet it’s always found a place on a couch, in a chair, or on my bed.

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Daisy Belle enjoys Annabelle’s afghan

It’s still going strong. A testament to the durability of sports weight yarn. I’ve washed it hundreds of times in the thirty plus years I’ve carried it around the world. Created on a farm in Arkansas, it’s been to Germany and three states. Six apartments, six houses, and one condo. It’s also been slept on by my four Westies, the most recent named Daisy Belle. Grandmother would have liked that.

Sweet dreams.

What are your favorite memories of your grandmother?

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Writer’s Enthusiasm is Contagious. http

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Writer’s Enthusiasm is Contagious

She grabbed my forearm and the pitch of her voice rose. “There’s a local Christian writers’ group?” As we discussed the details of her new-found gold mine, her enthusiasm fanned mine. Here we were, two kindred ladies who didn’t know each other five minutes ago, now we were babbling like early-morning robins. It felt like we both got the worm–she a new group and me another person who loves to write.

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Writing Critique Group

“As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.” Proverbs 27:17 NIV

I belong to a fabulous critique group. There are five members and everyone brings something different to the mix. That’s one of the benefits of the group–multiple eyes viewing the writing through filters created by varying life experiences. Our differences include age, occupation, education, and location. Those differences influence our critiques. One member may focus on dialogue, another on credibility, and another on description. I need and appreciate the suggestions these focuses produce.

We submit our work to each other every Wednesday and have a week to critique the submission. These are not flip reviews with minor comments. No, our group members kindly, but honestly, sift through the document and return detailed suggestions. Fortunately, these are not dictates and each author may do what she will with them. Everyone is professional and supportive and knows her markings are for the author to consider. Ultimately, the author decides what to change and learns from the critique what a reader’s experience might be with that particular writing. That’s valuable information. I’ve been amazed how many times what I meant and what I conveyed didn’t match. Without my group, I wouldn’t have realized that someone from the East Coast would have a different reaction to what I thought made perfect sense. It’s great to have the opportunity to give it another try.

Collectively, we support each other and yes, sharpen each other as iron sharpens iron. It’s a beautiful relationship and one I’m grateful to have. Thanks, ladies.

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Character Voice Journal

Recently I used James Scott Bell’s voice journal idea to help me know my protagonist better. Joan talked to me and told me her joys, history, and attitude. She provided flesh for the factual bones I’d created and gave me a richer view of her personality and life.

I never had imaginary friends, but now I’m creating characters from thin air to populate my novels. The voice journal is a good technique. Each character gets a chance to chat with me. When Joan talked, I typed her words and her voice became clearer as I listened. This exercise let me hear what she sounds like, her cadence. She’s a fascinating character and will be fun to work with in my journey through Dying to Change.

This process made me wonder what God thought when he created me. Did he think “she’s going to love music, vivid colors and patterns, and dogs–especially Westies, and her heart’s going to dance every time she sees the Colorado mountains?” Did he talk with us as he chose our physical appearance, personality, and abilities? He loves all of us and created us as unique representations of his image. I think he had as much fun as I’m having.

For more about voice journals, check out James Scott Bell’s The Art of War for Writers.

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Engraved in God’s Hands

13 Shout for joy, O heavens; rejoice, O earth; burst into song, O mountains! For the LORD comforts his people and will have compassion on his afflicted ones. 14 But Zion said, “The LORD has forsaken me, the Lord has forgotten me.” 15 “Can a mother forget the baby at her breast and have no compassion on the child she has borne? Though she may forget, I will not forget you! 16 See, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands; your walls are ever before me.”  Isaiah 49:13-16 NIV

People may have short memories or loyalties, but God never forgets me. I am engraved on the palms of his hands. God’s hands are huge, and they have millions of names engraved on them. One of those names is mine. I am important enough to God that he put my name permanently in front of him. He knows who I am, and I am of value to him. Engraved is a conscious, selective act. God made that act while he thought of me.

This is reassuring. On a difficult day, I prayed for God’s guidance and protection. When everything was over and all was well, I saw God put his hands in front of me and point to his palm. “See, I’ve got you right here.” It doesn’t get any better than that.

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