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I’d rather have God’s guidance than GPS

Recently I used my GPS to plot my route to a new location. Easy enough. Enter the destination, pick from the selections, and watch the machine plan my trip. Well, not so fast. Sometimes the GPS gives me totally unrelated choices. It doesn’t have a mind of its own and does its best to interpret my data. I entered Inca for Inca Mexican Restaurant and among my options were the correct one plus Insulation Services Inc A Div, Ross Dress For Less, and Crop Production Svc Inc. Huh? Good thing I have control over which map I get. FYI, Red Lobster came up as the top choice because it was a paid ad.

GPS search results

GPS search results

Still, I pick my restaurant and take off. In this case, I basically know where it is anyway, but choose to let GPS direct me. Immediately it dislikes my approach to the starting point and starts “rerouting.” I ignore it, knowing it will catch up with me.

Cruising along, I hear, “In .3 miles, turn left on Columbia.” Good enough, but by the time I check my mileage and look up, I’ve passed the street. I whip into a parking lot and try again while the GPS tries to steer me back on course.

Then I hear, “Turn left on College Avenue.” Sure, that’d get me there, but I know the restaurant is in the parking lot straight ahead and I can approach from the back. I reach Inca, turn off the GPS, and we’re both happy. Destination achieved.

How does that compare to trusting God for guidance? I enter my destination. Again, not so fast. God might have other plans. Maybe he wants me to go to Ross Dress For Less. I hope he doesn’t choose Crop Production Svc Inc because I have no idea what I’d do there. With GPS, I can cheat and look at the entire route before traveling. With God, I see just far enough ahead to keep moving. Or waiting until he tells me to move.

Once I’m on my way, God keeps me on course until he tells me to change direction. There may not be an “in .3 miles” warning at all. So I remain flexible and trusting. Like GPS, when I make a wrong turn, God recalculates, but he doesn’t squawk at me saying, “recalculating” or anything else that I interpret as “you’re an idiot, why didn’t you listen?” That keeps me calm and trusting.

There may not be any familiar landmarks when traveling with God. He wants me to rely on him. That’s so much harder to do. I want to look for a McDonald’s or even that advertised Red Lobster. Still, he’s God, he has a plan, and he cares where I go. I’m much better off sticking with him as my guide than relying upon my instincts.

Eventually, I end up where God wants me. I don’t always know where it’ll be or when. But he’s a lot smarter than a machine, and I plan to choose him every time.

“Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” Proverbs 3:5-6 NIV

What about you? What experiences have you had with GPS and with God? What’s been better?

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Party till you drop

photo-22We’ve finished the major holiday season and plunged into the new year. My visit with my family went well. Not as expected, but well. On Christmas day, we all gathered at my mom’s house and enjoyed a great meal and gave gifts to each other.  Nothing unusual about any of that. It began snowing and sleeting in the afternoon, so we all headed to our homes and hotel rooms. Just it time it turned out.

The next morning, we awoke to ten inches of snow and ice. All of us were stranded, with and without power at varying times, across the Arkansas capital area. My sister Sherri created our indoor exercise program—we climbed all nine floors of our hotel, walking the halls on every floor on the way up and down. She, David, and I talked all the way. What a great time from a situation we couldn’t do anything about.

Over the next couple days, we dug ourselves out, and the whole family shopped, ate, and visited the Clinton Presidential Library (http://www.clintonlibrary.gov). The snow and power outages took away any pressure to do anything other than enjoy the opportunities we had. Before leaving town, we met at IHOP and feasted on pancakes and other breakfast goodies.

David and I drove home on a new route so we could visit with one of my critique partners and her husband. It was delightful to finally meet Lora and Bill, and we chatted for hours.

The second day of our drive, we played tourist. We checked out the Great Wolf Lodge in Kansas City, Kansas (http://www.greatwolf.com), the Great Overland Station in Topeka (http://www.greatoverlandstation.com), and ended the day with the Eisenhower Presidential Library in Abilene, Kansas (http://www.eisenhower.archives.gov). I highly recommend stopping for any of these if you get the chance. All our sightseeing took up the bulk of the day, and we stayed another night on the road.

The next day, we woke to more snow and drove slowly through limited visibility in Kansas then reached clear weather in Colorado. We finally made it home in the late afternoon.

Our Westie, Daisy, stayed with our friend Cathy and her dogs, Emma and Katie. The three girls played like crazy the entire time we were gone. Daisy slept for two days after we picked her up. This picture of her sums up what happens when you have a good time over the holidays hanging out with family and friends.

I hope your holidays were just as fun. What did you do and how are you recovering?

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Writing Critique Group

“As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.” Proverbs 27:17 NIV

I belong to a fabulous critique group. There are five members and everyone brings something different to the mix. That’s one of the benefits of the group–multiple eyes viewing the writing through filters created by varying life experiences. Our differences include age, occupation, education, and location. Those differences influence our critiques. One member may focus on dialogue, another on credibility, and another on description. I need and appreciate the suggestions these focuses produce.

We submit our work to each other every Wednesday and have a week to critique the submission. These are not flip reviews with minor comments. No, our group members kindly, but honestly, sift through the document and return detailed suggestions. Fortunately, these are not dictates and each author may do what she will with them. Everyone is professional and supportive and knows her markings are for the author to consider. Ultimately, the author decides what to change and learns from the critique what a reader’s experience might be with that particular writing. That’s valuable information. I’ve been amazed how many times what I meant and what I conveyed didn’t match. Without my group, I wouldn’t have realized that someone from the East Coast would have a different reaction to what I thought made perfect sense. It’s great to have the opportunity to give it another try.

Collectively, we support each other and yes, sharpen each other as iron sharpens iron. It’s a beautiful relationship and one I’m grateful to have. Thanks, ladies.

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Character Voice Journal

Recently I used James Scott Bell’s voice journal idea to help me know my protagonist better. Joan talked to me and told me her joys, history, and attitude. She provided flesh for the factual bones I’d created and gave me a richer view of her personality and life.

I never had imaginary friends, but now I’m creating characters from thin air to populate my novels. The voice journal is a good technique. Each character gets a chance to chat with me. When Joan talked, I typed her words and her voice became clearer as I listened. This exercise let me hear what she sounds like, her cadence. She’s a fascinating character and will be fun to work with in my journey through Dying to Change.

This process made me wonder what God thought when he created me. Did he think “she’s going to love music, vivid colors and patterns, and dogs–especially Westies, and her heart’s going to dance every time she sees the Colorado mountains?” Did he talk with us as he chose our physical appearance, personality, and abilities? He loves all of us and created us as unique representations of his image. I think he had as much fun as I’m having.

For more about voice journals, check out James Scott Bell’s The Art of War for Writers.

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Engraved in God’s Hands

13 Shout for joy, O heavens; rejoice, O earth; burst into song, O mountains! For the LORD comforts his people and will have compassion on his afflicted ones. 14 But Zion said, “The LORD has forsaken me, the Lord has forgotten me.” 15 “Can a mother forget the baby at her breast and have no compassion on the child she has borne? Though she may forget, I will not forget you! 16 See, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands; your walls are ever before me.”  Isaiah 49:13-16 NIV

People may have short memories or loyalties, but God never forgets me. I am engraved on the palms of his hands. God’s hands are huge, and they have millions of names engraved on them. One of those names is mine. I am important enough to God that he put my name permanently in front of him. He knows who I am, and I am of value to him. Engraved is a conscious, selective act. God made that act while he thought of me.

This is reassuring. On a difficult day, I prayed for God’s guidance and protection. When everything was over and all was well, I saw God put his hands in front of me and point to his palm. “See, I’ve got you right here.” It doesn’t get any better than that.

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